Marriage is beautiful and through the years, your journey together could only get lovelier with trust and maturing love. But as time passes by, with so many changes that could happen in your lives as man and wife, particularly having kids, your wife may have less time for taking care of herself. But this should not mean that she will become a lesser person than how she is right now. In fact, as long as you pamper her well, she could get more and more beautiful as you count the years together. Here are some essential tips that every married man has to know to ensure that he gets home with a beautiful wife.
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1.
Encourage her with all the right words.
You’ve made her fall in
love with words and you can keep her beautiful by telling her she is and that
she is doing a great job as a wife and mother.
Hebrews
10:25 English Standard Version (ESV)- Not neglecting to meet together, as
is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see
the Day drawing near.
2.
Give her a reasonable budget for some “Me
Time”.
It’s a great thing if
your wife has her monthly earnings too, but she will certainly appreciate it if
you offer her a budget for beauty care once in a while. No matter how she could
get busy, your wife needs time and budget to relax at the salon or buy some
beauty essentials. And always get back on tip number 1. Never forget to tell
her how beautiful she is.
3.
Hold her hand as you grow emotionally and
spiritually.
You are the man in your
home and it’s a serious job you need to take as a real man. You have to lead
your wife and your family on the better way - grow together in light and in
truth.
Genesis 2:15 (ESV)- The
Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it.
Ephesians 5:23 English
Standard Version (ESV)- For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ
is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.
4.
Be a good provider.
Men are called to
provide for the family. Be a good one
and learn to make your money grow. Take leadership in making sure your finances
as a family grows through good stewardship and effective money management.
1 Timothy 5:8 English
Standard Version (ESV)- But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and
especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse
than an unbeliever.
5.
Always remember: A happy wife means a happy
life.
Could there be a
simpler way to keep your wife beautiful than to keep her happy? By being a
great man that you could ever be, you can make her happy with the simple
things. It takes some hard work and at the end of the day, you’ll come home to
a beautiful wife patiently waiting. Now that’s a happy life.
